EnvyAronson, 1994 - 200 psl. Envy is the first work on that important ingredient of human experience since Melanie Klein's book in 1957. Yet envy has long been identified as the critical element in the negative therapeutic reaction and accounts for at least some of the difficulty in engaging the hard-to-reach. But what exactly is it that the haves have that the have-nots envy? The breast, the penis, generativity, wealth, position, power? After studying the individual qua individual and as a member of a group and community, Harold Boris reached the conclusion that there is something even more fundamental than these - that the basis of envy is life itself. Taking off from this thesis as presented in his previous books, Passions of the Mind and Sleights of Mind, Boris shows that to be living and to grow up, marry, mate and reproduce, can be almost entirely separate from feeling that one truly has the right to do so. There are those who feel authentic and meant to be and they flourish, and there are those who feel that their life and success is an imposture. The former feel alive, the latter hollowed out with dread and culpability. It is as if there is a right that some have and some don't: those who have it - or seem to - are envied by those who don't. Though therapy can help an envious person get better, it also carries the risk of such an increase in self-envy as to bring the treatment to a screeching halt, or worse. Boris shows how at least some of the panic resulting from the self-envy that can bring therapy to an impasse or a disaster can be averted by a careful restructuring of the therapeutic relationship. |
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... round the world . There are some people for whom there is no such thing as nothing . In their psychic calculus , zero does not exist . Inside the zero , where there might otherwise be an absence , there is instead a presence of an ...
... round the world . There are some people for whom there is no such thing as nothing . In their psychic calculus , zero does not exist . Inside the zero , where there might otherwise be an absence , there is instead a presence of an ...
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... round of failures that serve only to increase envy . Only when the baby can endure merely being fed does the experience become and remain tolerable . Without the cessation of the torment ( taunt , tantalization , and teasing ) which the ...
... round of failures that serve only to increase envy . Only when the baby can endure merely being fed does the experience become and remain tolerable . Without the cessation of the torment ( taunt , tantalization , and teasing ) which the ...
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... round - good plate and a square - bad plate and moving these toward the octagon and decagon ; the dog ends up biting its own tail . In other studies , stenosis of coronary and kidney arteries , or decrease in the exoimmune- increases in ...
... round - good plate and a square - bad plate and moving these toward the octagon and decagon ; the dog ends up biting its own tail . In other studies , stenosis of coronary and kidney arteries , or decrease in the exoimmune- increases in ...
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Adam Phillips analogy analyst anxiety appetite baby become begin better Bion Black Milk Boris breast called child choice choose consulting room COUPLE course death desire differences discovery dread dream encounter envious envy example experience experienced fantasy fear feel felt Frederick Barthelme Freud frustration function give grayling butterfly greed guilt hate hope idea identification imagine infant interpretation involved Italo Calvino Klein later little Xs look matter means Melanie Klein mental mind mother narcissism natural selection nature no-thing object Oedipus complex once one's pain Palomar patient penis perhaps person pleasure principle preconceptions projections psychoanalytic psychotherapy question realization relationship represent seems selection principle sense session sexual someone sort species Standard Edition story superego survival symbol T. S. Eliot tell tensions therapeutic therapist therapy things thought turn unconscious Winnicott wish woman words