EnvyAronson, 1994 - 200 psl. Envy is the first work on that important ingredient of human experience since Melanie Klein's book in 1957. Yet envy has long been identified as the critical element in the negative therapeutic reaction and accounts for at least some of the difficulty in engaging the hard-to-reach. But what exactly is it that the haves have that the have-nots envy? The breast, the penis, generativity, wealth, position, power? After studying the individual qua individual and as a member of a group and community, Harold Boris reached the conclusion that there is something even more fundamental than these - that the basis of envy is life itself. Taking off from this thesis as presented in his previous books, Passions of the Mind and Sleights of Mind, Boris shows that to be living and to grow up, marry, mate and reproduce, can be almost entirely separate from feeling that one truly has the right to do so. There are those who feel authentic and meant to be and they flourish, and there are those who feel that their life and success is an imposture. The former feel alive, the latter hollowed out with dread and culpability. It is as if there is a right that some have and some don't: those who have it - or seem to - are envied by those who don't. Though therapy can help an envious person get better, it also carries the risk of such an increase in self-envy as to bring the treatment to a screeching halt, or worse. Boris shows how at least some of the panic resulting from the self-envy that can bring therapy to an impasse or a disaster can be averted by a careful restructuring of the therapeutic relationship. |
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... appetite , it only has its grievances as things upon which to nurse and gnaw . Without such assistance in mourning , the frustration of its intentions to possess the breast and not merely receive from it is all too likely to feel so ...
... appetite , it only has its grievances as things upon which to nurse and gnaw . Without such assistance in mourning , the frustration of its intentions to possess the breast and not merely receive from it is all too likely to feel so ...
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... appetite , is insatiable . The ongoing desirability of the object makes it appear powerful and unforgettable - hence an object of ongoing envy . The question of what makes people unable to develop appetite is considered both from the ...
... appetite , is insatiable . The ongoing desirability of the object makes it appear powerful and unforgettable - hence an object of ongoing envy . The question of what makes people unable to develop appetite is considered both from the ...
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... appetite to match . ( Bion was more than most the person who took up this idea of " appetite to match " . He felt that knowledge was especially for brainy creatures a rather basic drive ; and of course in his theories it is not impulse ...
... appetite to match . ( Bion was more than most the person who took up this idea of " appetite to match " . He felt that knowledge was especially for brainy creatures a rather basic drive ; and of course in his theories it is not impulse ...
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Adam Phillips analogy analyst anxiety appetite baby become begin better Bion Black Milk Boris breast called child choice choose consulting room COUPLE course death desire differences discovery dread dream encounter envious envy example experience experienced fantasy fear feel felt Frederick Barthelme Freud frustration function give grayling butterfly greed guilt hate hope idea identification imagine infant interpretation involved Italo Calvino Klein later little Xs look matter means Melanie Klein mental mind mother narcissism natural selection nature no-thing object Oedipus complex once one's pain Palomar patient penis perhaps person pleasure principle preconceptions projections psychoanalytic psychotherapy question realization relationship represent seems selection principle sense session sexual someone sort species Standard Edition story superego survival symbol T. S. Eliot tell tensions therapeutic therapist therapy things thought turn unconscious Winnicott wish woman words