Despair and the Return of Hope: Echoes of Mourning in PsychotherapyJason Aronson, 2007 - 352 psl. When unmourned experiences of helplessness and disavowed desires turn into a passive fatalism, people stop hoping for the best and fear the worst, despairing that the real world has anything good to offer. This can lead individuals to memorialize past sufferings through psychological symptoms and compulsive repetitions. Dr. Shabad discusses how patients, after many years of living a life limited by resentment, fear, and despair, can come to terms with their childhood experiences: a mother who can never be satisfied, a father who consistently buries his head in the newspaper. He explains how people can overcome hardships endured and losses suffered. The authentic spontaneous dialogue between therapist and patient provides the generosity and courage necessary to shed their now obsolete defenses and mourn what cannot be remedied or replaced. Rich clinical material demonstrates how mourning can bring about self-acceptance, and set individuals free to take responsibility for and live out their own personal truths. This is a deeply felt, and beautifully written tribute to the redemptive power of psychotherapy and to the regenerative capabilities in all human beings. |
Turinys
Death Meaning and Human Relations | 3 |
Conscience and the Ethic of Mutuality Human Development as a Passionate Labor of Gratitude | 35 |
DISILLUSIONMENT DEFENSE AND THE DESPAIR OF BITTERNESS | 55 |
Selling Ones Developmental Soul SelfBetrayal and Wearing the Mask of the Enemy | 57 |
The Compulsion to Repeat Homesickness and to Begin Again as if for the First Time | 87 |
The Silent Loyalty Oath Symptoms as Memorials to Ones Lonely Suffering | 109 |
On the outside Looking in Waiting at the End of the Block and the Sense of Entitlement | 135 |
The Evil Eye Envy and Begrudging the Passion of a New Beginning | 159 |
PSYCHOTHERAPY THE QUEST FOR SELFACCEPTANCE | 211 |
Bringing Heaven Down to Earth The Idealizing Transference and the Search for a Powerful Other | 213 |
Confidence and Doubt The Therapists Sense of Lovingness and the Use of the Personal in Psychotherapy | 241 |
Haunting Echoes of Personal Truth The Pangs of Regret and Remorse | 267 |
SelfAcceptance and the Generosity of Letting Go The Experiences of Mourning and Growth | 293 |
References | 315 |
Credits | 325 |
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Kiti leidimai - Peržiūrėti viską
Despair and the Return of Hope Echoes of Mourning in Psychotherapy Peter C. Shabad Ribota peržiūra - 2001 |
Despair and the Return of Hope Echoes of Mourning in Psychotherapy Peter C. Shabad Trumpų ištraukų rodinys - 2001 |
Pagrindiniai terminai ir frazės
able adult aggressor analyst Anne anxiety attempt baby baby's become caretaking child childhood compulsion conscience consciousness continuity countertransference created creative death defensive depersonalizing derealizing desires desperate developmental disillusionments emotional encopresis envious evil eye envy existential experience fantasies father fear feel felt freedom Freud frustration Gary gift girlfriend give Grand Inquisitor guilt Hank helplessness human ideal illusion imagine individuals inhibit internal introjected involuted isolation lives lonely suffering mask means memory mental mother mourning narcissism narcissistic neurosis never object obsessional omnipotence one's oneself ourselves parents passion patients Perhaps person psychic loss psychoanalytic psychotherapy reality realize receive reflects regret relationship repetition compulsion resentment rience sadomasochistic self-consciousness self-enclosed sense Shabad shame speak spite superego survivor survivor guilt symptoms thera therapeutic therapist therapy tion tive transference transform trauma traumatic theme treatment uncon unconscious undo vulnerability Winnicott wishes yearning
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